And elderly couple were very concerned that their grown-up children were not being nice to them. The sweetness and kindness they showed to them early in life has somehow disappeared. And so they decided to write their children this letter:
Dear
children, As you can see, we, your parents are not young anymore, and so we
decided to write this letter to ask you to be patient with us, and try to
understand our feelings. When you see us
become forgetful, and not able to follow a conversation with you, be patient
with us as we try to follow what you are trying to say. When our legs do not
act as fast as before, please do remember how patient we were in teaching to
walk when you were tiny toddlers. When you hear us repeat the same things over
and over, do not be upset, but remember how often you told us to repeat the
same story again and again, which we did happily. When we don’t feel like
eating, please do not force us to eat, as we know when we are hungry and need
to eat. And when we accidentally spill some food on us, just remember how often
we cleaned you up when trying to eat alone, with plenty of spills and minor
accidents. And when you see us so inept in following modern technology, do not
make fun of us, but give us a chance to learn and show us how to use so many
modern gadgets. You cannot understand the problem of old age. We hope that when
one day you reach our age, you will understand what we are going through.
Remember that in spite of our fragility and
weaknesses, we love you, and we hope you can fully acknowledge our predicament,
and show more patience instead of frustration. God bless you all. Your parents.
No comments:
Post a Comment