A teacher gave a sheet of paper to
every student in his class. On each sheet was listed the name of each child in
that class. He left a few empty lines after each name, so that each child would
write something positive about that particular student. It was a beautiful exercise
which took quite some time to have it finished. The teacher then picked up all
the papers and took them home with him. From this project he issued another
list of sheets with each of the students’ names written on top, and listed
underneath were all the comments that the other students had written. So each student
had a separate sheet with a series of positive comments his or her friends had
written on them. Back in school a few days later, the teacher distributed the
papers to each student who were all delighted and surprised to read the nice
comments written about them. They felt so united together.
Many years later, one of the
students was killed in the Iraqi War, and his teacher and some of his classmates
attended the funeral. Towards the end of the service, the mother of that
soldier approached the teacher “You were his teacher years ago, weren’t you? My
son talked about you a lot. Let me show you something. After my son was killed,
they checked his wallet and found this worn-out note. He must have opened it to
read it many times.” The teacher knew exactly what happened. He kept that note
which encouraged him and motivated him – they were the comments his classmates
had written about him years earlier. The mother said “I want to thank you very
much. As you can see, he really appreciated that gesture, and treasured that
note.” Another student attending the funeral said “I too carry that note with
me all the time.” The wife of yet another student said “My husband insisted
that we’ll put that note in our wedding album.” Another former student said “I
kept my note close to me all my life. In fact I placed it under the glass on top
of my desk, so that I can look at it often.” The teacher broke down crying. He
cried not only for the fallen student-soldier, but also for the joy that a
simple exercise on a sheet of paper had accomplished so much good and gave so
many blessings.
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